More Happier

Good communication can make us more happier but in order to make good communication there are some facts and rules.

We talked humanistic psychology few weeks  ago. We said that there are human needs and when human needs are met people can become more happier. In communication partners should stay connected and they should learn listen that way. They can try to connect each other to develop their relation and as we talked in class they connect like speed of light. Also, gestures and body language are another important tolls of communication. Sometimes these tools explain more thing.
People always have needs. Why? Because people have feelings and these feelings create some needs.
When someone accuse us like an enemy fire; we respond it different ways.

1.We fight back and accuse too.
2. We freeze
3. We run away
or

Observation...

We always have interpretations in communication but it can be sometimes strange. "Emre is not a good football player" and " Emre did not score in last 5 match" are different things. SO:

FACTS VS. INTERPRETATIONS

If we  put these in an order:

OBSERVATIONS
FEELINGS
NEEDS
REQUEST

Request is about our action in dialog.

More clearly:

I observe...
therefore i feel...
because i need...
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I behave like a connected way.

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How to reach empathy?

Mirror neurons, thinking actually, moralistic judgments, feelings, listening... All of these are big parts of the process of reaching empathy as we talked in class and watched in videos.